Autism Acceptance Month: Embracing Neurodiversity with Strength-Based Language

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Understanding Neurodiversity

Neurodiversity is the celebration of different brain functions and the understanding that we all experience the world in unique ways. Autism Acceptance Month is an opportunity to educate ourselves, challenge stereotypes, and support autistic individuals in embracing their identities.

The Power of Language in Autism Acceptance

One of the most impactful ways we can support autistic individuals is by being mindful of the language we use. Labels such as low-functioning and high-functioning can be harmful, as they dehumanize and diminish the unique strengths and needs of each individual.

Why Language Matters

Using outdated terms contributes to:

  • Harmful stereotypes – Reinforcing misconceptions about autism.

  • Unintentional discrimination – Leading to mistreatment or exclusion.

  • Negative self-perception – Making individuals feel "broken" rather than valued for their differences.

Instead, consider using strength-based language that accurately reflects an individual's support needs:

  • Instead of low-functioning, say:

    • “In need of a higher level of care.”

    • “Requires more accommodations for daily living.”

  • Instead of high-functioning, say:

    • “In need of a lower level of care.”

    • “Requires fewer accommodations for daily living.”

By shifting our language, we create a more inclusive and supportive environment that acknowledges the varying needs of autistic individuals without diminishing their abilities.

Moving Away from the "Fixing" Mindset

For many families, an autism diagnosis can feel overwhelming. Often, treatments focus on making autistic individuals appear more "normal," which can send the damaging message that they are broken and need fixing.

Instead, we should:
Educate autistic individuals about autism in a way that affirms their identity.
Celebrate neurodiversity within the family system to promote self-acceptance.
Recognize that challenges are external rather than personal faults.

A Helpful Analogy: Vision Impairment and Autism

Think about someone who wears glasses. If they struggle to see clearly, they don’t blame themselves—they recognize that glasses provide the necessary support to navigate their world effectively. Similarly, autistic individuals benefit from appropriate accommodations rather than feeling like they are the problem.

Commit to Learning and Acceptance

Autism Acceptance Month is a reminder to continue:

  • Learning about autism and neurodiversity

  • Spreading acceptance through mindful language

  • Embracing differences and supporting inclusive communities

By fostering understanding and shifting the conversation toward strengths rather than limitations, we create a world where autistic individuals can thrive.

Join the Movement for Autism Acceptance!

Let’s work together to build a society that welcomes and values neurodiversity. Share this message, educate yourself, and embrace the beauty of different ways of thinking.


Jeymarie Guerra, LMHC-QS, RPT™ ADHD-CCSP, ASDCS

Jeymarie Guerra, LMHC-QS, RPT™ ADHD-CCSP, ASDCS, specializes in ADHD, autism, trauma, and play therapy. Certified in TF-CBT and AutPlay, she creates a compassionate environment that fosters healing and resilience. Jeymarie is committed to empowering her clients by offering neuro-affirming services in English and Spanish. Connect at Jeymarie@supportiveengagement.com.

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